Being Palestinian
By Mike Odetalla
To be a Palestinian in this world is a truly unique experience. You begin to feel that you are “different” from everyone else the
minute that you start to understand and comprehend what your birthright means for you. By the simple fact of being born on
and living on that small piece of real estate between the Jordan River and the Mediterranean Sea, your life takes you on a
path that others cannot fully comprehend.

Simple arrival in this world is looked at with suspicion and no small amount of concern. You are not just another baby: you
are a statistic to be counted and watched by those who worry not about your welfare or your future, but about the fact that
another Palestinian has been added to the ‘demographic equation’. Those that watch the demographics with concern would
be happier if you were never born at all. Your arrival adds to their worry that they would lose the majority. A majority based
on race and religion and even though you can trace your ancestors to that piece of land for thousands of years, in the eyes of
the demographers, you are not welcome there.

From the very first day that you could understand your surroundings, you begin to comprehend the burden of being a
Palestinian. While other children in the world learn and play in an atmosphere of relative safety and bliss, you cannot. Your life
is regulated by the ever present occupiers: settlers and their soldiers. While other kids retain the innocence that goes with
childhood, yours is shattered and traumatized by the sights and sounds of the endless war of attrition surrounding you. Things
that would make adults cringe with horror in other parts of the world are a part of your everyday life and routine. You
become as hard as your surroundings. The games of childhood are no longer innocent and lose meaning or interest to you.
The games that you play reflect the desperation of your Palestinian reality. While others plan and look forward to a future, you
are concerned only with surviving the present.

Your father, once the pillar of your life, the man who made you feel safe and secure, can no longer find work to support your
family. He is stripped of his clothes and his honor, right there, in full view of the world:  you begin to see that he cannot be the
guarantor of your well being. Your heart aches to see him in such light. In your youthful anger, you want him to lash out and
defy, resuming his proper place in your eyes. Yet the reality is that he cannot, and you begin to understand that it is not out of
fear for his own safety, but from his fear for the well being of yourself and siblings. You begin to understand the great burden
that he must shoulder in silence, suffering alone.

Your mother, the symbol of all that is good and pure in this world, is reduced to begging and pleading just to be able to move
from one area to the next. You watch in horror and rage as a young Israeli soldier yells profanities and makes derogatory
remarks to her. Yet she holds her ground and with the patience that only a Palestinian mother can have, she perseveres. She
has been pushed to the forefront of trying to provide for and keep her family going. She undergoes the greatest humiliations at
the checkpoints in order to spare your father worse treatment. She steps between you and danger, following her motherly
instincts, shielding you from certain harm. You wonder what she thinks about during those sleepless nights, but you will never
know, for she bears this burden in total silence.

You go to school, when allowed, and get good grades, yet you know deep down in your heart that no matter how much
education you have, the best that you can hope for is a low paying menial job. You see the young men gather everyday on the
same streets, in a ritual of boredom and futility. They either have finished their schooling or just quit out of frustration and
hopelessness. Their numbers seem to grow daily, as their prospects for a hopeful future diminish. This, you begin to
understand is the byproduct of occupation, colonialism, and brazen policies to keep your people down, desperate, and
broken. You begin to feel your loneliness in this world, to understand that the rest of the world doesn’t know of your plight or
simply doesn’t care. You watch television images of your tormentors, living but a few kilometers away, enjoying the very life
that they deny you. Your life, home, land, and history continue to be stolen, destroyed, and expropriated by others.

You watch with envy and anger as others enjoy the freedoms forbidden to you. While others travel around the world and
claim that indeed the world is a “smaller place”, you scoff at them because you cannot even travel a few kilometers to visit
family, loved ones, in your own homeland. Your world grows “smaller” and more claustrophobic each day, filled only with
check points, closures, and curfews. You are not very different from the canary that you keep in the cage, indeed, he might be
better off than you. You take him out and set him free and watch with envy and admiration as he soars high in the sky. Free at
last…A free bird in Palestine. You envy that bird and wish that you were a bird also…

Mike Odetalla

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